Parenting, Guiding and Teaching Children in a New Dawn Discussions - Architects of a New Dawn2024-03-28T19:49:13Zhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/group/parentingguidingandteachingchildreninanewdawn/forum?feed=yes&xn_auth=nolet learn them to love!tag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2012-06-26:2227378:Topic:3407402012-06-26T17:24:49.661ZLorenzo Abbiatihttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/LorenzoAbbiati
<p>what if you realize your parents have not been true when you where a child?</p>
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<p>the attitude of loving brings you to have many friends.....you are never alone</p>
<p>but wisdom means also being alone to have the time for meditating</p>
<p>being not able to be alone might be a sign of low self-consideration</p>
<p>how many people remain alone because not giving a second chance</p>
<p>the forgiveness shouln't be infinite but has to be mighty</p>
<p>how many people can't live full…</p>
<p>what if you realize your parents have not been true when you where a child?</p>
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<p>the attitude of loving brings you to have many friends.....you are never alone</p>
<p>but wisdom means also being alone to have the time for meditating</p>
<p>being not able to be alone might be a sign of low self-consideration</p>
<p>how many people remain alone because not giving a second chance</p>
<p>the forgiveness shouln't be infinite but has to be mighty</p>
<p>how many people can't live full love because they make the other people "something to conquer" or they expect too much from the other people.</p>
<p>the perfect love remains able to walk together through new paths without never being bored.</p>
<p>let's make an example of a perfect society in which two child meet and swear eternal love......(in the past this costume was manipulated but itself it's not a bad idea)</p>
<p>Today the society has a mask of prohibitionism but children has to escape their parents to experience a new love story........they have got to hide so they don't have protection. parents' prohibitionism obtain the reverse effect.</p>
<p>The best parents guide and let the child wander where he wants to go but protecting him.</p>
<p>wandering in wonder but with a guide ....... in that way the child begins to learn what it's good and what's bad.</p>
<p>once the church priest said to my parents referring to me "when your child will get married we'll do a great party" (our was supposed to be the "great family")</p>
<p>Now i live far from them and this would never happen, i was able to love but something didn't work.......</p>
<p>I feel like to spend all my love here and at work .</p>
<p>i think the best love is the one you fell for humanity.</p>
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<p> other problematic people are not able to fix on , that might be a mind/heart problem.</p>
<p>in a corrupted society like today's they use other people (the giver and the taker) normally the taker is a good looking person which force stays in the giver weakness which is usually afraid of being alone.</p>
<p>and we have come back to the beginning.</p>
<p>usually the giver has been too protected and dreams to conquer beautiful good looking people-</p>
<p>usually the taker has been too let free in his growth has experimented violence on nhimself because not protected.</p>
<p>how can you became healed in this love troublesome extremes? just feeling the UNIVERSAL LOVE which trascends gender, sex and cultural differences...........</p>
<p>ok you can change with psychanalisis . your life is not finished at 30 or 40 , the thing you should do as children grown is where you do collocate yourself and only try to play unconditional love.</p> Confidence Building in Kids....tag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2010-01-02:2227378:Topic:1477172010-01-02T18:02:33.199Zdrmikehttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/drmike
Happy New Years Momas and Papas,<br />
<br />
I ran across this article on PBS Parents. Nothing really new, but it is such a pleasant thing to consider. Do you all have any thoughts?…
Happy New Years Momas and Papas,<br />
<br />
I ran across this article on PBS Parents. Nothing really new, but it is such a pleasant thing to consider. Do you all have any thoughts?<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.pbs.org/parents/supersisters/archives/2009/12/helping-kids-grow-in-confidenc.html?utm_source=newsletter1&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=20100101">http://www.pbs.org/parents/supersisters/archives/2009/12/helping-kids-grow-in-confidenc.html?utm_source=newsletter1&utm_medium=email&utm_campaign=20100101</a><br />
<br />
Also, I found the referenced article on Bhuddism and Parenting interesting, although it is no more than just another person's opinion...;<br />
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<a href="http://www.charismatickid.com/innerconfidence/buddhism-moms-kids-happy/">http://www.charismatickid.com/innerconfidence/buddhism-moms-kids-happy/</a><br />
<br />
Best for 2010!<br />
<br />
Mike Music and Childrentag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-09-23:2227378:Topic:1249452009-09-23T13:14:40.207ZLeah Juarezhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/LeahJuarez
Awhile back, Jeanne sent an email out about her grandson who is an exceptional drummer. She described an incident in which the band director was very discouraging about drumming as a form of music. My husband began drumming at the age of 4 because his older brothers had a rock band and practiced in the living room. His parents were completely supportive of all of their childrens' musical talents (well... go figure... they let them practice in their living room!!) :o) In fact, my husband…
Awhile back, Jeanne sent an email out about her grandson who is an exceptional drummer. She described an incident in which the band director was very discouraging about drumming as a form of music. My husband began drumming at the age of 4 because his older brothers had a rock band and practiced in the living room. His parents were completely supportive of all of their childrens' musical talents (well... go figure... they let them practice in their living room!!) :o) In fact, my husband performed "Soul Sacrifice" in front of a large crowd, with his brothers' band at the age of 10. It was his first performance, and to this day, he can distinctly remember his dad giving him a huge hug and kiss when it was over. A very significant moment indeed.<br />
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We are now recognizing musical talent in all three of our daughters, but specifically with our 9 year old's exceptional talent on the drums. In fact, a family member who is a music producer heard her play and said, "Get her in lessons right away -- with someone who is top-notch. She's really got something." My question is, if children have true talent -- especially in percussion -- what emphasis should be put on lessons as compared to just letting them explore their own talent? Also, I want to point out the impact that parents have in supporting their kids and music. It is so incredibly important, and the support and encouragement can be life changing!<br />
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Looking forward to everyone's comments,<br />
~Leah Birth into Beingtag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-09-12:2227378:Topic:1221882009-09-12T06:59:33.364ZLinda Lawsonhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/LindaLawson
I have just watched a dvd called Birth into Being that is deeply moving and useful to anyone . If you are expecting more children now or in the future, it is an absolute must do for oneself and child.<br />
<br />
The author is a gifted midwife who shows her work with pregnant mothers giving birth.It is deeply transforming simply to watch this dvd.<br />
<br />
Why? you might ask.She presents understanding of what happens when a child is wanted/unwanted and feels that thru the pregnancy.<br />
<br />
You see the results .<br />
<br />
The…
I have just watched a dvd called Birth into Being that is deeply moving and useful to anyone . If you are expecting more children now or in the future, it is an absolute must do for oneself and child.<br />
<br />
The author is a gifted midwife who shows her work with pregnant mothers giving birth.It is deeply transforming simply to watch this dvd.<br />
<br />
Why? you might ask.She presents understanding of what happens when a child is wanted/unwanted and feels that thru the pregnancy.<br />
<br />
You see the results .<br />
<br />
The author does still give workshops on the west coast. These are life changing events in which you may experience your own rebirth.I highly recommend this work to anyone who is ready to embrace<br />
the new.<br />
<br />
<br />
birthintobeing.com<br />
<br />
<br />
warm regards,<br />
Linda Are there gender differences in early learning?tag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-09-11:2227378:Topic:1219902009-09-11T04:37:36.666Zdrmikehttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/drmike
Here's an interesting article from PBS regarding gender differences in early learning....<br />
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<a href="http://www.pbs.org/parents/raisingboys/school02.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=parents">http://www.pbs.org/parents/raisingboys/school02.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=parents</a><br />
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What do you think?
Here's an interesting article from PBS regarding gender differences in early learning....<br />
<br />
<a href="http://www.pbs.org/parents/raisingboys/school02.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=parents">http://www.pbs.org/parents/raisingboys/school02.html?utm_source=facebook&utm_medium=fanpage&utm_campaign=parents</a><br />
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What do you think? Kid Gizmos: The Pros and Constag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-08-14:2227378:Topic:1108322009-08-14T05:32:00.077Zdrmikehttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/drmike
My kid will be 6 soon and is already starting with the Nintendo DS obession crap (I'm obviously not 100% against, but have reservations). We do get outdoors often. I'm sorry, but I did not dig up any research articles on this. What is everyone's experiences and feelings on the young, and teenagers with these things? This can include hand held devices, or XBox, Playstations, etc. Do you think it has affected your kids concentration, language development, literacy, or social skills.
My kid will be 6 soon and is already starting with the Nintendo DS obession crap (I'm obviously not 100% against, but have reservations). We do get outdoors often. I'm sorry, but I did not dig up any research articles on this. What is everyone's experiences and feelings on the young, and teenagers with these things? This can include hand held devices, or XBox, Playstations, etc. Do you think it has affected your kids concentration, language development, literacy, or social skills. Five Reasons to stop saying "Good Job!" to Childrentag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-08-06:2227378:Topic:1044892009-08-06T19:37:47.724ZAlaniya Pattonhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/ClaudiaPatton
<a href="http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/gj.htm">http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/gj.htm</a><br />
<br />
I would love to hear your comments to this article in this discussion space.<br />
Claudia
<a href="http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/gj.htm">http://www.alfiekohn.org/parenting/gj.htm</a><br />
<br />
I would love to hear your comments to this article in this discussion space.<br />
Claudia Confidence in Childrentag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2009-08-02:2227378:Topic:1027932009-08-02T14:20:03.423ZLeah Juarezhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/LeahJuarez
What are some things we can do to help instill more confidence in kids at a young age? What are some ways we can recognize each and every child and let them know we see them for the beautiful, perfect human beings that they are?
What are some things we can do to help instill more confidence in kids at a young age? What are some ways we can recognize each and every child and let them know we see them for the beautiful, perfect human beings that they are?