Comments - What Is a Short Temper Fuse Really About? - Architects of a New Dawn2024-03-29T06:25:50Zhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profiles/comment/feed?attachedTo=2227378%3ABlogPost%3A280120&xn_auth=noLorenzo & Joyce,
It is ea…tag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2011-07-17:2227378:Comment:2802832011-07-17T17:10:56.609ZJohn Strohlhttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/JohnStrohl
<p>Lorenzo & Joyce,</p>
<p>It is easy to advise on this, and hard for those afflicted to take that advice, unless there is tangible guidance on HOW to engage differently. Providing platitudes without providing process is almost a guarantee of more of the problem. Fortunately for us all, there are sources of serious substance on this issue - First is the concept that we are in our egos most of the time in the modern day world, meaning that we are fundamentally centered inside ourselves and…</p>
<p>Lorenzo & Joyce,</p>
<p>It is easy to advise on this, and hard for those afflicted to take that advice, unless there is tangible guidance on HOW to engage differently. Providing platitudes without providing process is almost a guarantee of more of the problem. Fortunately for us all, there are sources of serious substance on this issue - First is the concept that we are in our egos most of the time in the modern day world, meaning that we are fundamentally centered inside ourselves and using a value system limited by and to ourselves to view and evaluate what's happening around us. This is a teaching of the ACE (Agents of Conscious Evolution) course (see my latest blog post) the complement to which is that if we shift from EGO to ESSENCE, a literal shift from the self-constrained viewpoint and modus operandi to an outward seeing and encompassing viewpoint, where greater-than-self values become the lens and yardstick for seeing and evaluating respectively, then compassion, patience, and empathy have room to enter and hold sway. The good news is that there are literal techniques and practices for accomplishing this shift at will, which are also taught in the ACE course, but a good deal of which can be gleaned from the HeartMath Institute site (<a href="http://www.heartmath.com/" target="_blank">http://www.heartmath.com/</a>) Not only does this site provide a rich body of material about the significance of the heart BEYOND it's role as a blood pump, it provides well defined and effective techniques for deliberately elevating and escalating the heart's role in moment to moment affairs, using techniques such a "Quick Coherence" and others that are well described in HeartMath materials. Take a look! I promise you won't be disappointed :-)</p>
<p>Blessing in all you do... and must do</p>
<p>John</p> We have two choices: the path…tag:architectsofanewdawn.ning.com,2011-07-16:2227378:Comment:2801302011-07-16T18:39:30.852ZLorenzo Abbiatihttps://architectsofanewdawn.ning.com/profile/LorenzoAbbiati
<p>We have two choices: the path of regret or the path of love.</p>
<p>let's all practice forgiveness and our soul wounds will be blessed......</p>
<p>let's "hear" what people say and their needs.....</p>
<p>after have forgivenen our past mistakes we'll forgive other people's mistakes.....and so we'll be able to love again unconditionally......that's the path of love, compassion.</p>
<p>let's all return child playing and being able to feel enthusiasm and real joy for life....</p>
<p>let's all…</p>
<p>We have two choices: the path of regret or the path of love.</p>
<p>let's all practice forgiveness and our soul wounds will be blessed......</p>
<p>let's "hear" what people say and their needs.....</p>
<p>after have forgivenen our past mistakes we'll forgive other people's mistakes.....and so we'll be able to love again unconditionally......that's the path of love, compassion.</p>
<p>let's all return child playing and being able to feel enthusiasm and real joy for life....</p>
<p>let's all be detached from people's judgement and we'll not judge other people anymore.</p>
<p>Blessings,</p>
<p>Lorenzo </p>