Recently, I left my status as a "privileged" person, as normally seen, in this society.
I was almost completely left out of my Mom's will. There were lots of reasons, even though, I was the "family
caregiver", I was also resented for being a "liberal" (really more "conscious") here in the South.
To a family, who woke up every morning and went to bed in the evening to Fox News, I was scapegoated for "scolding and satirizing" them for that. I was the traveler, the adventurer, and the one who respected Eastern Religions, and liberal theology. I was the one who warned them that they could not take their possessions to their graves. I was the one who went to California for grad. school and stayed out there for 14 years.
I came back and saved my Brothers' life., three condemned houses and then my nephews' life. I found out later that Mom was "humiliated" because I choose to do that. Somehow, it made her feel "less than".
Yet I was shocked to be virtually left out of the will, and I realized then what a "priviliged" lifestyle I had been living. I had the financial security that enabled me to travel to be an adventurer. I did not feel like I had to save an nest egg, to work to retirement. I did it all while I was young. I was fortunate to have that feeling of security.
Now, that the security blanket is gone, I have been really doing what it takes to feel really secure inside - meditation, prayer, groups, intense study of more liberal theology, etc.
Here is what I have found that is "Real Privilege" to me. It is called Divine Inheritance!
Privileged Vocation
WORD FOR THE DAY Monday, May. 11 (gratefulness.org)
In a world so torn apart by rivalry, anger, and hatred,
we have the privileged vocation to be
living signs of a love that can
bridge all divisions
and heal all wounds.</</b>i>
Henri Nouwen